THE FOLLOWING IS A CHINESE person called TANTRA TOTEM.

You may not believe in this but the advice is great!
Read all the way down, you might learn something!!!

1.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

2.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
conversational skills will be as important as any other.

3.
Don't believe all you hear.

4.
When you say, "I love you", mean it.

5.
When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.

6.
Be engaged at least 100 years before you get married.

7.
Believe in love at first sight.

8.
Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who
don't have dreams don't have much.

9.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt
but it's the only way to live life completely.

10.
Talk slowly but think quickly.

11.
When someone asks you a question you don't want
to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

12.
Remember that great love and great
achievements involve great risk.

13.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

14.
When you realize you've made a mistake,
take immediate steps to correct it.

15.
Smile when picking up the phone.
The caller will hear it in your voice.

16 ONE.
Spend some time alone.